I was in that transitional phase, too. Realizing that you are crossing some kind of threshold that people told you was going to be great, and you’ll feel settled and confident and comfortable, and you’re going to know yourself more, but you can’t really imagine it. So you feel like a mess, and you’re still very unsure of the decisions that you’re making. But you feel like you’re making big decisions that are going to affect the rest of your life and you’re going to have to stick by for the rest of your life. When I looked around my circle of friends, that’s what I saw, this moment of big decisions and a lot of indecision.